It used to be said that nothing very much occurred during the month of August and that the majority of people used the month as a time for relaxation. Perhaps it was the only holiday month in the year, whereas, today people find themselves taking holidays both summer and winter. But the Bank Holiday weekend signals that the summer is at an end. Soon the schoolchildren will return to their lessons, and the round of domestic life will resume. Hardly surprisingly we find ourselves struck by the way in which time appears to pass. Life is so busy, so frenetic, so anxious. Sometimes the seasons come around with alarming regularity, so much so that our life appear to be passing away! Not that this is the case for everyone…
Increasingly even the busiest of lives come to that stage when there is little to entertain, little to encourage, little to help. As human life gets longer and longer, there are those who find old age far less stimulating that it aught to be. Residential homes are springing up all over the place—residential homes where people are fed, kept warm and clean, but where the passage of time drags terribly. Some find their own homes to be less the place of welcome that perhaps they once were, and more prisons where the monotony and boredom and relieved by the whine of day-time television. ‘And even the experience of younger people can be far from comforting. There are any number of so-called ‘broken-families’ where the traditional times of annual celebrations, at Christmas, Easter and in the Summer, become battlegrounds over ‘who has the children’. There can be no sadder sight than such fractured families displayed in fast-food outlets, where children are being treated to the things that are probably not best for them…
In so many ways we have come to judge the quality of life by what we possess and not by what we share. Yet the truth is that our children and young people, just like our grannies and grandpas, are part of a family life which we neglect to our peril. Of course, there are any number of reasons for change—not least in such a mobile society. But perhaps the time has come to reassess our relationships one with another—perhaps a little less selfishly? The real treasures of life are those who are our dear ones and those who love us and care for us. The greatest appreciation and the most special of gifts has to be in the time we spend with them. Yes, this will prove difficult and impossible for very many in a traumatised and troubled society. But there is an alternative—one where people can feel safe, loved, protected and treasured. We might strain to bring to mind where that community exists. But, quite simply, this is precisely what the Christian Church and community is called to be. That might prove quite a challenge, but it is a wonderful endeavour in Jesus’ name.